Grandparents are one of the best things that God created. They bring so much love into our lives and they love our families. Still, God didn’t just create them to spoil our kids. Grandparents have a unique role in the lives of our families and God has created them for some amazing reasons. 1. A…
The viral social media meme “777 rule for marriage” sounds clean enough to fit on a refrigerator magnet. One date every seven days. One overnight away every seven weeks. One vacation every seven months. It circulates on social media the way most relationship advice does — as a tidy formula for a complicated thing. And…
There is a moment, familiar to almost anyone who has loved someone long enough, when you hear yourself say something and think: that wasn’t me. The sharpness in your voice. The sarcasm that landed harder than you intended. You weren’t angry at your partner, not really — you were tired, or flooded with something older…
Starting therapy is a significant and often intimidating decision. Typically, this step is taken because you are navigating serious difficulties in your life. This could involve struggles in your relationships—with a partner, parents, or peers—or perhaps you are coping with a recent traumatic event, depression, or anxiety. It’s safe to say that most people seeking…
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Newlywed bliss never reached the Garland household. Our first year was hard (and miserable) at times. We were navigating all the everyday challenges, like learning to tolerate each other’s quirky habits about leaving toothpaste caps unscrewed and refusing to use a thick bed comforter. But I was also plagued with undiagnosed Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (which spikes…
“We used to be intimate all the time. I don’t know what happened.” I hear this a lot from the couples I work with. Their relationship started out so passionate and romantic. Now, years later, they find intimacy lacking, and they are not sure why. Is the Honeymoon Over? Part of the reason is what…
I’ve been the woman sitting on the plush couch, tissue in one hand and hot green tea in the other, telling a mental health professional, “I don’t know who I am anymore. I’ve lost myself.” My identity crisis was birthed by postpartum depression. As a new mama with a four-week-old baby boy, I felt overwhelming…
A Valentine’s Celebration of Real Love You’re sitting across from your partner at dinner. Maybe the restaurant is loud. Maybe they’re telling a story you’ve heard before. And somewhere in the back of your mind, you’re wondering: shouldn’t this feel more… exciting? Here’s the truth nobody tells you about Valentine’s Day: the “magic” you’re chasing—that…
Chapter 2 Have Low-Conflict Conversations About Money and Enhance Intimacy You’ve met your soulmate and decided to get married, engaged, or move in together. But while making plans for your happy life together, you soon discover that you have a spender-saver dynamic and that discussing money evokes a variety of complex emotions such as shame,…